01Our flagship training
Unf*ck Your Self
A direct, structured system to dismantle the self-sabotage quietly running your life and holding you back.
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Private · By Application · 1-2-1
Work With Me.
Unlock more success and happiness in every area of your life.
Direct, one-to-one work to remove the blocks holding you back. Then we focus on bringing out your greatest potential and your deepest purpose so you can build the best life.
A Personal Welcome
My Approach
Resolving self-sabotage changes everything.
I specialise in helping people overcome self-sabotage, imposter syndrome and self-doubt. Self-sabotage affects everyone to some degree. Resolving it is not easy.
I have spent the last twenty-five years developing a unique methodology that helps people stop holding themselves back. Most existing models of therapy and coaching do not understand the complex intricacies of what is involved in resolving self-sabotage.
Once a person is no longer blocking their own potential, it is like they have a golden compass that helps them move in the perfect direction to build a life they will love.
Do You Self-Sabotage?
If three or more of these are true, you are holding yourself back.
- Push away compliments
- Struggle with self-control
- Suffer from procrastination
- Limit yourself with perfectionism
- Feel like an impostor when things go well
- Struggle with switching your mind off
- Struggle with addictions
- Attract complex and dysfunctional people
- Battle with negative self-talk
- Watch yourself making bad choices
- Only achieve success with sacrifice
The tangible cost to your life can be immense. The unknown lost opportunity is an even bigger loss. On the other side of self-sabotage, things naturally develop beautifully.
Are You Ready?
What is it worth to truly...
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Feel fulfilled and joyful
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Be more financially abundant
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Be confident and capable everywhere you go
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Feel vibrantly healthy in your body and live longer
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Enjoy healthy and happy relationships
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Fully express your greatest potential
Think about it. What value would you place on these results?
Your Options
Choose how we work together.
Silver package
STOP SELF-SABOTAGE TRAINING
Six to ten sessions of direct support and guidance on how to use the Unf*ck Your self training to unpick self-sabotage. This is suitable for you if you can commit to working on yourself in between sessions.
£2,995
Total Life Upgrade
The deepest level of support. Choose the duration that fits your commitment.
Gold Package
3 Months
£15,000
Platinum Package
6 Months
£25,000
Instalment plans are available.
The Gold and Platinum packages include
The deepest level of support.
- 01One full day a month, 1-2-1 — including a bodywork session with a world-class somatic healer.
- 02Three one-hour Zoom sessions every month.
- 03Voicenote guidance and micro-coaching support between sessions.
- 04Bespoke mindset tools, built to fit your needs precisely.
- 05Access to a library of 280 meditations, trainings and mind programming tools.
- 06Daily attunement — I work on you and your dreams every single day.
If you want total life change and you invest in yourself to this degree, the work becomes incredible.
All my work is guaranteed.
If you are not 100% thrilled with the results, you receive a full refund.
When working with me
I'll be in the ring with you.
I am a published author, motivational speaker, Harley Street therapist, creator of the award-winning FreeMind App, and founder of the Future Foundation think tank.
In the year 2000 I experienced a profound life-changing epiphany. Since that moment, I have been obsessed with the art and science of transformation.
If you want to hear about chakras, lentils and crystals, and you want strategies to float around on a cloud every day with a simpering smile on your face, I am not your guy. I want you in the real world, doing epic stuff, having a blast and doing good along the way.
I won't be in your corner willing you on from the sidelines. I will be in the ring with you, side by side, giving you everything I have got to help you succeed. Your goals become my goals. I won't stop, and I won't let you stop, until you create and claim a life that you adore.
Testimonial
"Tom is not a typical business advisor. He brings the deepest psychological tools and techniques to totally transform your life. He helped me identify some massively limiting beliefs about success and stop certain destructive habits that were holding me back. My business has gone from a £3 million turnover to a £60 million turnover. Removing those negative beliefs and behaviours gave me the foundation to create this success."
— Sean McGuigan · Co-Founder, Granemore Group
Book a Discovery Call
The first step.
Schedule a free one-hour session. This is not a sales call or a theoretical overview. It is a real chance to see what it is like to work with me. Bring a real challenge, and let's get to work.
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02Immersive · 2 Days
Big Shift Weekend
Two days. One unconscious pattern. Renegotiated at the root. Not a retreat — a re-engineering.
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The Community
A room of inspirational people who refuse to hold themselves back anymore. Be surrounded by like-minded people who are truly there to support and encourage you to bring your best to life. Free for life, for anyone that has bought any of our products. No subscription.
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Don't F*ck Up Your Life
Twenty six years of work, distilled. The book that challenges the self-help industry and teaches you how to stop self-sabotage and turn your life around yourself.
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